The Tai Lopez Show

“If you go to entrepreneur conferences and walk into a room with 500 entrepreneurs, you are now in a room of 500 insane people.” - Tai Lopez

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The nature-nurture debate misses the point.

Discussing how much of who we are is genetic makeup vs. environmentally influenced is an unproductive conversation. It’s a high amount in both; we are raised by our parents, the same DNA that makes us up. What we need to be talking about is how to shift the hardwiring that comes from this upbringing.

On today’s episode of The Tai Lopez Show, we are discussing the value of personality tests in discovering where to push efforts for self-improvement. Unfortunately or fortunately, most of who we are comes from our parents, and in this conversation we talk about what to do with that reality. Blood is thicker than water, but it’s not thicker than common sense.

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“People love people that subconsciously remind them of themselves. Narcissists love narcissists.” - Tai Lopez

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Points to Keep In Mind

  • Think about your results as how you see the world
  • The 6 attributes of narcissism: authority, self-sufficiency, superiority, exhibitionism, exploitativeness, vanity, entitlement
  • Read The H Factor of Personality to learn how to categorize people
  • Most narcissists don’t see themselves as narcissists
  • Extroverts like new things; introverts like routines
  • Machiavellianism is sneaky, two-faced, manipulative; linked to being bullied as a child
    • Characterized as people who pursue in an interpersonally exploitative strategy
  • Higher narcissism means higher extroversion and creativity
  • Narcissism leads to higher levels of stress
  • Scientists say it takes the average person 67 days to break a habit
  • Conscientiousness is diligence, prudence, organization, and perfection
  • Scientists laugh at the Myers-Briggs test
  • We celebrate people with mental problems in the modern world
  • Men are more psychopathic than women
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“Read every book, blog, and article on the subject. Go to every conference and seminar on the subject. Mastery brings wealth.” - Tai Lopez

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We all want to make more money.

But wanting to isn’t good enough. You have to actually do it. Maybe it’s that your current full-time job provides a steady paycheck, affording you a lifestyle of comfort and flexibility. But what about that business idea that’s been chirping in the back of your head for the past few months? When will you start grinding on that and experience real freedom working for yourself?

On today’s episode of The Tai Lopez Show, we are discussing how to increase your income in 2018. For those of us with entrepreneurial ambition, it’s difficult to know which avenue to take our efforts. We might know we want to start a business, but can’t decide the exact industry or space. Today, we take a moment to bring in the focus and talk about how to increase your income this year.  

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“Take something you already know how to do and become a world-class expert at it.” - Tai Lopez

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Points to Keep In Mind

  • Mastery brings wealth
  • #1 way to increase your income is shadow somebody
  • Take something you already know how to do and become a world-class expert at it
  • To become an expert on a subject, read every book, blog, and article
    • Go to every conference and seminar
  • Rarely do you meet a wealthy person who isn’t a master at some skill
  • Another great way to increase wealth is starting a social media marketing agency
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“The thing about e-commerce and dropshipping is you can do it part-time. You don’t have to quit your job.” - Tai Lopez

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Hearing others’ stories helps us reframe our own.

When you recognize the fibers of another person’s narrative to be parallel to your own, you rack focus for a second. The typical hamster wheels of thought stop. And when you come back to your own narrative, you have a new, healthier, and more nuanced perspective on that part of the story.

On today’s episode of The Tai Lopez Show, we are taking a moment to recap some of this week’s highlights. From Jocko Willink giving the insider scoop on Navy SEAL training to Daymond John breaking down productivity, the range of content and perspective will allow us to rack focus on our own story. Tune in to push new boundaries in your personal and professional life.

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“Obsession with your business is the same as obsession with your kid. You don’t look it as a daily job; you look at it as the process. You know you’re not going away, just like you know you aren’t giving your child up for adoption.” - Daymond John

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Points to Keep In Mind

  • The world will throw tremendous challenges at you
    • Keep this in mind when you party
  • Nietzsche’s ‘will to power’ is what we call willpower today
    • It’s more the power of yourself, not power over other people
  • When you party, party hard; and when you work, work hard  
  • You won’t instantly make the money you want to make
  • Save $15k-$20k before quitting your job
  • A liar can only see his/her side of the story
  • Variability is the sign of truth
  • Envy is the only sin that doesn’t feel good in the moment
  • At least 50% of the population suffers from attachment disorder
  • Words are always easier than action
  • Use Narcissism Personality Test to find out which how you score on: authority, self-sufficiency, superiority, exhibitionism, exploitativeness, vanity, entitlement
  • Think of breaking off relationships as breaking bones; it’s better when it’s a clean break
  • Money is a great slave and horrible master
  • If you have to take a vacation from your job, you shouldn’t go back
  • Be careful of the email inbox trap where you are focusing on fixing other people’s problems and not your own
  • 80% of Navy SEALs quit during the training
    • Usually 1 hour of sleep per night during peak training
  • The idea that we can’t maintain military presence in countries for extended periods is false
  • Under Saddam Hussein, Afghanistan civilians were being tortured
  • In the initial phases of the Iraq War, American troops fought alongside Iraqi soldiers
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“Yes, there’s fun and games, and I like to play them when I can. But I don’t forget the next day, I have to wake up, get out of bed, and face life.” - Tai Lopez

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It’s the weekend.

Your friends want you to go out later tonight. Drinking with them means laughs, stories, and a good time; all essential parts of your formula to happiness. But you also have big plans to grind on your business tomorrow. What is the cost of recreational fun and how does it compare to achieving your entrepreneurial dreams?

On today’s episode of The Tai Lopez Show, we are talking about how to have the proper mindset. With so many temptations of fun and games coming our way, it’s important to recognize that they are not the solution. Yes, it’s important to have fun, but you must always keep a return back to normalcy and work in the back of your head.

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“When you party, party hard. And when you work, work hard. But don’t get it twisted. Be disciplined when you work.” - Tai Lopez

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Points to Keep In Mind

  • When you party, party hard; and when you work, work hard
  • Be disciplined when you work
  • Lift weights for both the physical and mental benefits
  • The world will throw tremendous challenges at you
    • Keep this in mind when you party
  • Nietzsche’s ‘will to power’ is what we call willpower today
    • It’s more the power of yourself, not power over other people
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“Wanting to revive house parties is a purely altruistic move. Girls have nothing to do with it. And alcohol has nothing to do with it.” - Tai Lopez

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Most parties are lame.

But every now and then, you come across one that speaks to you. It’s hard to describe why; something about the energy in the room just feels good. You’re meeting people you want to meet and talking others who have interesting things to say. How do you replicate this?

On today’s episode of The Tai Lopez Show, we are joined by comedy group Chad Goes Deep. In this conversation, we clear up the confusion regarding parties, specifically what makes a good house party. Tune in to sharpen your understanding of parties so you know how to throw the best one possible the next time you commit to hosting!

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“If you take on the responsibility to set up a party, it’s up to you to set the environment up to a certain standard.” - Chad Goes Deep

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Points to Keep In Mind

  • The more you earn, the more you learn
  • A party doesn’t need to be shut down to be a good party
  • A maximum freedom parties means you don’t have to pay for your drinks
  • If you take on the responsibility to set up a party, it’s up to you to set the environment up to a certain standard
  • Whenever people get commissions, they hustle
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“Humans are less happy now. For many reasons, but it’s really because life has become too complex. And what’s complex is the messaging.” - Tai Lopez

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You can’t make money without understanding people.

And the biggest part of understanding people is knowing who are your true allies. Without this ability to decipher, you will start businesses with enemies and get slighted every step of the way. With this skill, you will create productive work environments that foster honest collaboration.

On today’s episode of The Tai Lopez Show, we are discussing the importance of being able to detect lies. From the media feeding you misleading headlines to your best friends saying they “love you,” convoluted messaging is everywhere. Developing a radar to distill the truth from the nonsense can be what takes you to new heights. Tune in right now to make a step in that direction.

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“You don’t need that many hugs. People are getting too soft in the modern world.” - Tai Lopez

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Points to Keep In Mind

  • Deluding bias is the human’s tendency to lie
  • Action is the translation of truth
  • The definition of love is you go above and beyond
  • Stepparents have a 100x higher changer of abusing kids
  • Read The Selfish Gene by Richard Dawkins
  • You will find the true allies in life once you learn to discern the nonsense from truth
  • The longer laws get, the more corruption there is in society
  • When you oversimplify problems, you start to blame others when the fault is yourself
  • Everyone loved Hitler when he first came to power
  • Try to interpret the vibe of those around you over the content/words
  • Read Freud’s Civilization and Its Discontents
  • What’s causing unhappiness is the complexity of the messaging
  • A liar can only see his/her side of the story
  • Variability is the sign of truth
  • Envy is the only sin that doesn’t feel good in the moment
  • Words are always easier than action
  • Use Narcissism Personality Test to find out which how you score on: authority, self-sufficiency, superiority, exhibitionism, exploitativeness, vanity, entitlement
  • Think of breaking off relationships as breaking bones; it’s better when it’s a clean break
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“The thing about e-commerce and dropshipping is you can do it part-time. You don’t have to quit your job.” - Tai Lopez

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We all have full-time jobs.

They provide us with a regular paycheck and health insurance. The side hustle is the thing that, once big enough, will replace your full-time job. And dropshipping is the perfect side hustle to get you to that point where you can finally work for yourself.

On today’s episode of The Tai Lopez Show, we are joined by two fans who have successfully made this transition with an online dropshipping business. By directly targeting their customers using Facebook ads, they are able to successfully convert online traffic into paying customers. The secret to this is that there is no secret. Tune in right now to launch a dropshipping business or take your currently existing operation to the next level!

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“Don’t try to sell something you would buy.”

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Points to Keep In Mind

  • You don’t need a big social media following to sell online
  • You won’t instantly make the money you want to make
  • Save $15k-$20k before quitting your job
  • Don’t sell something you would buy
  • Think outside the box
  • Use Shopify to sell online
  • It’s okay to ‘waste’ about $2,000 in Facebook Ads in the beginning
  • Get free browser Chrome extensions (ex: Facebook Audience Plus)

 

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“The #1 reason small businesses fail is because of overfunding.” - Daymond John

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We all want to be more productive.

After our morning coffees, we have great ambitions for the day. And at the end of the day, we are disappointed with not reaching our morning’s goals. The trick to productivity is diagnosing where you go wrong during your day and fixing it. From becoming more selfish to giving yourself praise to working smart vs. working hard, there are many strategies you can integrate into your daily routine.

On today’s episode of The Tai Lopez Show, we are joined by Daymond John. He is most well-known for his appearance on the hit show Shark Tank. As a teenager, he started the hip hop-inspired clothing line FUBU, while working his job at Red Lobster for $30,000/year. In this interview, we hear his insights on entrepreneurship, productivity, and what money actually means. He is the author of Rise and Grind. Tune in to hear his insights and take your daily hustle to the next level!

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“Obsession with your business is the same as obsession with your kid. You don’t look it as a daily job; you look at it as the process. You know you’re not going away, just like you know you aren’t giving your child up for adoption.” - Daymond John

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Points to Keep In Mind

  • Obsession is being focused on the process, not any sort of results
  • 2 ways to operate business: either reduce costs and/or increase sales
  • 3 ways to deal with customers: buy new one, upsell current one, or make one buy more frequently
  • Read The Power of Broke to learn how money is a superficial high
  • Over 60% of Forbes 1000 are self-made men and women
  • The #1 reason small businesses fail is because of overfunding
  • The people who tell you to quit your day job are selling insecurity
  • Money is a great slave and horrible master
  • If you have to take a vacation from your job, you shouldn’t go back
  • Be careful of the email inbox trap where you are focusing on fixing other people’s problems and not your own
  • Read The Everything Store to learn the story behind Amazon
  • The top 10 richest men have more money than the bottom 3.5 billion combined
  • Productive people are selfish, give praise to themselves, and meditate on their goals
  • An entrepreneur questions the system and everything around them
  • Sometimes being born into wealth is a disadvantage


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“You don’t want to be surrounded by ‘yes-men.’ You want to be surrounded by people who are going to say, “Hey Boss, I have a better way.” - Jocko Willink

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Pick a trait and learn from someone who has mastered it.

For example, if you struggle with discipline, there’s no better person to to learn it from than a Navy SEAL. Their infamous training regimen filled with sleep deprivation and physical exhaustion has granted them access to the highest level of insight on what the human body is capable of. Their discovery is that contrary to popular belief, it’s discipline that helps us break away from our shackles and allows us to be free.

On today’s episode of The Tai Lopez Show, we are joined by Navy SEAL Jocko Willink. He is the author of 3 New York Times Bestsellers, most notably Extreme Ownership: How U.S. Navy SEALs Lead and Win. Willink’s insights spread across multiple domains: from discipline to foreign policy, all the way to how to run a business. Tune in to hear his insights and take your daily hustle to the next level!

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“I wake up at 4:30. That’s a really good root of personal discipline. When you make the decision to not snuggle back with your pillow, you will feel better.” - Jocko Willink

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Points to Keep In Mind

  • If you struggle with discipline, seek out martial arts to train yourself
  • Under Saddam Hussein, Afghanistan civilians were being tortured
  • In the initial phases of the Iraq War, American troops fought alongside Iraqi soldiers
  • The problem on the battlefield is that there is not enough decentralized command
  • Most of the door-to-door fighting has been done by Iraqi soldiers
    • ISIS has gone from 70,000 to just over 1,000
  • Personal discipline will set you free by making you feel good in the long-run.
    • Thus, you won’t make choices that try to make you feel good in the short-term
  • Napoleon said if you execute a plan that you know is wrong, you’re culpable
  • Life is part art (the human gut instinct) and part science (the metrics)
  • Once you’re no longer afraid to die, then you will just care about the people around you
  • Contrary to popular belief, the military doesn’t stifle creativity
  • Subjects in school should be taught together, as the interwoven story they are
  • There’s people who aren’t more anti-war than those who serve
  • Quick wars are good wars and heavily influenced by level of preparation
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“Our infrastructure determines what we do. And we’ve become emotionally and economically dependent on our infrastructure.” - Joel Salatin

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Making money requires being healthy.

And being healthy requires money. The trick to a successful life is balance, and the moment we lean too much in one direction, we compromise the equilibrium. From our dating lives to our entrepreneurial pursuits, our health monitoring to self-education, each sector of our life needs distinctly different but equal attention.

On this week of The Tai Lopez Show, we spoke with a wide range of experts. From Dr. Blaser explaining the effect antibacterials are having on our body to YesJulz sharing how to grow empire using the power of social media, this week’s episodes had us thinking critically about our day-to-day choices. Tune in to hear the highlights and take your game to the next level! 

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“When somebody says social media or paid advertising is expensive, they don’t get it.” - Joe Soto

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Points to Keep In Mind

  • Never be the first or last to try a new trend
  • In the long-run, there’s no excess profits of anything
  • The top-ranking ETF of 2017 was in cryptocurrency
  • American Idol made $100 million through SMS text messaging
  • Current trends: tiny houses, cannabis, backpacks
  • Sweden uses 40% of the antibiotics we use
  • Epidemics come from the lack of diversity in our current living situations
  • Kids born by C-section are more prone to disease (celiac disease, juvenile diabetes, etc.)
  • There’s a lot of overlap between viral and bacterial infections
  • A Denmark study showed that antibiotics increase risk of inflammatory bowel disease by 14% in kids
  • We’ve engineered a system where the doctor-patient relationship is sterile
  • If you examine kids carefully, you will learn most don’t need antibiotics
  • Antibiotics change the metabolism in adults
  • People are making a lot of money from germaphobia
  • Our good bacteria fights the bad bacteria; this is the problem with anti-bacterial products
  • Hospitals and doctors like C-sections because they’re scheduled
  • Nietzsche’s ‘will to power’ is what we call willpower today
    • Mastering willpower turns obstacles into nothing
  • Absolute power corrupts absolute power
  • Blockchain technology could empower people to vote with less barriers
  • Our infrastructure determines what we do
    • We’ve become emotionally and economically dependent on our infrastructure
  • Centralization of people causes problems
  • Our survival is no longer dependent on us making good decisions
    • We don’t move in the direction of our skills because of this
  • There are 3 ways to grow your Instagram: Waiting, collaboration, and paid advertising/giveaways
  • An eBay ‘powerseller’ has done over $100,000 in sales
  • Find deal sites that need product like yours to feature/sell when seeking customer acquisition methods
  • Understand that you will make mistakes as you grow your business
  • There’s power in collaboration across all demographics, gender, and ages
  • You can only empower others to fight the fight by sharing with each other
  • Have faith in yourself and the journey; believing in something that doesn’t exist requires this

 

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