337: How to Know Who to Date, & Why to Be Careful With Love

“The closest analogy to love is hypnotism, so be very careful if you think you’re in love” - Tai Lopez

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Understanding people, and have a core, foundational understanding of personality types is essential if you want to know who you should date, who you should have a relationships with, and who you should avoid.

The closest analogy to love is hypnotism, which is why you simply cannot trust your own feelings when it comes to relationships. Sometimes, you need to rely on models and personality tests to show you the warning signs.

Then, as you get better and better at reading personality types, you will get better at making judgement-calls about the people you meet. Just be extremely careful if you feel like you might be in love in any way.

“People know to get body-trainers, but more people need ‘brain trainers’” -Tai Lopez

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Points to Keep In Mind

• The closest analogy to love is hypnotism, so be very careful if you think you’re in love
• Often, if you are “in love,” you’re blinded to reality and common sense
• Most people can’t really change more than 10-20%
• Having “low impulse control” is genetic and can be passed on to children
• Use personality tests to understand people better, especially before getting into relationships
• The earlier you try to change your thought patterns, the easier it will be
• People know to get body-trainers, but more people need “brain trainers”
• Like attracts like, so unfortunately this means that a lot of people with problems will be attracted to people with similar problems